I accidentally found purchase records from three years ago on my husband's phone. Every single item listed was meant for his ex-girlfriend. There were countless small novelty gifts, as well as box after box of condoms. Just looking at the dates and the variety of items, I could see how eager and attentive he had been back then. It was nothing like how he was with me. Ever since we got married, he acted as if he had no interest in intimacy at all, always calm and distant. We had been married for three years, and we were intimate exactly once every month. It would always last ten minutes, never longer, never shorter. It felt like a routine task, the same way every time. There was no warmth, no playfulness, no spark between us at all. It was completely dull. "All of this happened when I was young and wild," he said. "Do you really think it is worth your time to dig up old things like this?" I did not argue or raise my voice. I simply spoke in a quiet, steady tone. "It is not worth my time at all. We might as well get a divorce." His expression turned sharp and annoyed. Right in front of me, he tapped at his phone screen and placed orders for several more boxes of condoms. "I am buying some for you too," he said. "Are you happy now?" After that, he did not glance at me even once. He turned around and walked away. I stood there calmly and pulled out my phone to call my closest friend, who was also a lawyer. "Could you draft a divorce agreement for me? And also, I wanted to ask... That younger cousin you told me about before, the one who can go all night... is he still available?"