The day my husband gave me divorce papers was really bad. He said something that hurt me a lot. He told me that love is not real and that the only thing that matters is being, in control. My husband said that power is all that matters, not love.I did what he wanted I stayed away, from him. My absence is what he wanted. That is what I gave him.Years later I came back. I was not the woman that he had hurt so badly. I was not the woman he could push around and tell what to do. I felt calm and quiet. I felt strong and, in charge. The company that he thought he had destroyed was now mine to run.. I was the one standing in charge of it.He said you look different. He said it really quietly.I said yes. I made it through what you did, to me. I survived you.This time, I would be the one deciding how much he lost.